dave came over today.

I took some information about sending some emails to his band about a july tour.

He made a dentist appointment.

We acted completely as we always did.

That is if you only listened to our voices and facial expressions and didn’t hear the words.

Me: “I need your ok to take your name off my cell phone account”

Him: “No problem. Do you have an extra suitcase?  I’ll be going to Japan in 2 weeks. I’ll be back in a few months”

Him: “I got a storage unit .”

Me: “Do you want to see Julie’s video with Tim Hutton?”

I know this was pathetic but I wanted him to know that he wasn’t only losing me but my whole wonderful talented family.(incidentally he loved the video and kept saying how great she is and since we always watch Leverage he couldn’t believe that Tim Hutton was in it and being so funny)

There was other things said but every reference to the future by either of us excluded both of us.  I thought I was past this but I felt terrible.

I finally walked him to the door. I looked at him and said “This is so strange”

He said “I know” and he walked into the elevator.