I had sent him an email saying that if he marries her then if he dies she gets everything. Pension, social security etc.
I’ll only have what I have and that’s why I’m asking for more than half.
He came over today to pick up some things and bring me the iou for the money I’m lending him.
He said he doesn’t want to cheat me and that he never thought about what would happen to me if he dies.
He said “Let’s figure a way that you’re protected .I could get an insurance policy”
They’re waiting on every corner to give a smoking alcoholic 70 year old an insurance policy.
He’s packing his suitcase while he’s talking. He stands up and looks around the room. I was sitting on the couch. I know he’s thinking about all he’s leaving behind. Not just me but his home for the past 35 years.
Yeah that’s what he was thinking. What he said was “Did I forget anything?”
And he left.
67 and dumped 
Doesn’t he realize that the current relationship that he’s in with the whore is built on lying, cheating and dishonesty?? What kind of fantasy world is he living in that he thinks it will actually work? And when it does blow up, he’s going to come crawling back to you with his tail up his a$$?!?!?!
Unfortunately Grace, too much damage is done.
Since you’ve been married more than 10 years, you absolutely collect on his Social Security, whether he remarries or not, and probably on is pension. Please discuss with your lawyer
Thank you, Susan I’ll look into it.